Tuesday, October 15, 2013

The Gift of Tears




There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.

You survive because you can cry. You cry your way through disappointments, hurt, heartbreak, unmet expectations, betrayal and pain . You also cry your way through happiness, overwhelming, immense joy and laughter. Tears cleanse and heal you. They enable you to endure all that life gives you.

A life without tears is unimaginable. Tears are what make our life beautiful, enabling us to experience happiness, joy, struggles, failures and victories and play a critical role in helping us evolve as better human beings.

Had it not been for tears, surviving failures and struggles would be impossible. The beauty of tears lie in the space they provide to express our vulnerability that we try to hide. A space for outburst that reveals our humane side and enables us to experience our true selves.

Tears are thus a blessing in disguise and the greatest of gifts to - Experience Life !

Monday, June 24, 2013

When Baroda was treated to an overdose of love!




Sometimes a hug is all what we need :)



Hugs are universal medicine and the best part about a hug is you can't give one without getting one ! 
Hugs are magical and an instant dose of happiness. 


Religions dissolved, apprehensions and possible inhibitions overcome , hearts were bridged, an abundance of love overflowed when a group of volunteers decided to dedicate a Saturday morning to spreading love and smiles to reach out to people and make them feel loved.

Sometimes it’s better to put love into hugs than to put it into words. The feeling is more than beautiful! 

Right from the health conscious doctor on his morning jog, a beautiful 60 something cancer survivor to the the labourers were treated to a dose of love which left them smiling and over whelmed! The initial apprehension was natural and expected and we were questioned for our intentions and affiliation with any organisations if any and as to why we were doing this! And that is when the magic began. When people got to know that it was a group of volunteers who wanted to spread some love and smiles – support and appreciation poured in. Two 22 some things  on their regular jog joined in to spread some love. 


Selfless love is the purest form of expression when it is in the medium of a heartfelt hug – it is sure to touch your heart! I remember a lady absolutely overwhelmed by the hug (turns out it was her birthday that morning) and then being treated to a group hug, could it get any more amazing..oh yes it can! What followed was an abundant overflowing of love -  nani- nanas', a group of doctors, a cancer survivor, few labourers, the sweepers, kids, teenagers,an expectant mother, watchman – everyone got a big dose of love! Imagine a volunteer with open arms walking towards you with smile on his/her face to make you feel loved – How can that not make your day!


And if you're wondering if this is the  first of its kind – here's some history on the Free Hugs campaign!


The entire world is waking up to the power of hugs and it all started in June 2004 when an Australian who went by the pseudonym Juan Mann started giving out free hugs in his local shopping mall. Mann had reached a point of personal crisis in his own life: his parents had divorced and his fiancée had broken off their engagement. He realised that people were living increasingly disconnected lives. The need for human contact had been neglected. In Mann's eyes, we were living in a computer-mediated culture where friends were made through My Space and families were breaking down. Where previously small-scale local communities had been integral to individual well-being, now people were pursuing far-flung separate lives in different corners of the globe.
Mann hand-wrote a sign advertising Free Hugs and went to the Pitt Street Mall in central Sydney, where he stood for 15 long, lonely minutes before an elderly lady took pity on him. Her dog had just died, she confessed, and the hug had made her feel better. Soon Juan Mann was handing out hugs every few seconds. As the days passed, more volunteers with their own handwritten signs came and stood alongside him.

In 2006 he was interviewed by Oprah Winfrey and Free Hugs went international: branches sprang up in Taiwan, Israel, Italy, America, Switzerland, Norway, India, Portugal and the UK. It seemed to touch a nerve.

Everyone is fighting a battle. Everyone has a different story of struggle and overcoming and it is in times like these when the power of a heartfelt hug wields its magic! 

How does it feel when you walk up to a complete stranger give him/her a hug , post which you realise that he has been feeling miserable about himself or about life and the hug just transformed into  a ray of hope – a feeling that said Yes you matter and you are loved! 



Hug a stranger today- You never know you might have just touched a life! 


Gift yourself that happiness that one gets when you give from your heart – could be hug or even a smile

And to you who is reading this – A big virtual hug to you! You are loved! :)